But I would never say that to your face, and I'm actually cringing here at my computer at the thought that somebody could walk in... Today you're supposed to tell your partner exactly what will satisfy you. I love it when movie stars strut and preen—not Gwyneth Paltrow bending like a willow, but Catherine Zeta-Jones leading with her chest.
#8 A shy girl who’s not so shy in bed is every guy’s dream. If you can be a shy girl everywhere else, but turn into a wild cat in bed, he’ll probably end up breaking down in happy tears just to be dating a girl as awesome as you.
[Read: 20 things that turn a guy on sexually about a girl] #9 A guy feels more protective around a shy girl. When they’re with a shy girl, their protective instincts kick in stronger. #10 Guys find a shy girl’s body language and facial expressions more endearing. Most guys like shy girls, and when there are so few shy girls out there, you’d be more desirable than any other kind of girl.
I liked the Kama Sutra because it made sex seem ornate, exotic; words like penis and vagina were clinical, but lingam and yoni came (so to speak) with a little mystery. Asks one guide, "When was the last time you took a good look at your vulva? The idea of lying on my back, spreading my legs like a frog, and inspecting myself through a hand mirror has always seemed ludicrous to me.
Sex toys—always gifts from men who wanted to make me less inhibited—went to a top shelf and stayed there. I don't have to look to know what's there, and if you tell me it's as lovely as a lotus flower, I won't believe you.